A Day in the Life

I've been wanting to do a post like this for ages but kept forgetting to do it. I know that I will want to remember our day to day when she is little so I thought what better way than to document it! This was our day yesterday which I would say is a typical day for us. It's kind of long but it's for my memory so here you go:

5:45 a.m It's Jason's early day at work so he comes in the room to tell me bye, and I try to go back to sleep before E wakes up in less than 30 minutes.

6:15 Wake up to the sound of E up in the next room. So I get up and go downstairs and let Lucye out while I warm up E's medicine.

6:23 E has now set off the movement alarm monitor and is mad that I have not come to get her yet. I make a quick stop to the bathroom and put in my contacts.

6:25 Go get E from the crib and we go back into our bed and snuggle for a bit. She plays with the video monitor and crawls all over me.

6:40 Decide it's time to get up. E has her diaper changed. She takes her Prevacid and then we go nurse in her room.

7:10 We go downstairs and she plays in her pack and play while I pump for the morning. Once I am done pumping, I make her breakfast.

7:30 E has her breakfast. Today, it's oatmeal and yogurt mixed with prunes and raisins. She loves it. She likes to help feed herself the oatmeal and flings it everywhere.

8:00 E is done with breakfast. So we change her diaper and put her in an outfit for the day. She then plays on the floor for a few minutes before it's time to go down for her nap.

8:15-8:30 Read a book and sing songs and then E goes down for a nap.

8:30 I eat breakfast and change into clothes for the day. I showered the night before so all I have to do is put on an outfit, brush my teeth and put on mascara.

8:45 E is still screaming in her crib so I go in and check on her. I change her diaper because she has pooped (does this all the time!) and then put her back to bed. She falls asleep after 10 more minutes.

8:50-9:30 Meanwhile I unload the dishwasher, wash her breakfast stuff, and scan some things on the computer that I need to mail. I put together the new high chair since the bebePOD we have been using is getting too small for her. I also watch an episode of Four Weddings on the DVR.

9:30 E wakes up early from her nap. I take her downstairs and we play for a bit on the floor.

10:00 Nurse

Usually after this feeding, we usually either run errands or go for a walk to get out of the house.

10:20 Leave to head to Babies R Us and then I stopped at Home Goods since it was next door. I texted Jason this picture and said that E needed this for our new backyard at our new house. I never got a reply to that one. Humph!

I stopped on the way home to get a Chick Fil A lemonade because it was hot, and I decided I deserved one.

11:15 Get home and make E  lunch. On the menu: peach, apple and pear puree and some chicken and blueberries for finger food. She LOVES chicken. We introduced it last week and she can't get enough of it. The blueberries are new today and she wasn't a fan of them. We will try again tomorrow.

12:00 Naptime routine of book and singing and then to bed.

While she naps, I eat lunch and finish the episode of Four Weddings that I started earlier. I finish her 9 month post since she turned 9 months last week (mom fail).

12:40 E wakes up early from her nap again =). We come downstairs and play for a bit.

1:15 Nurse

1:30-2:45 Play and crawl around the house. This is where I like to practice our songs and work on sounds or "educational" things.

2:50 Go upstairs for a small nursing session and then read a book and go take a nap.

3:15 E falls asleep and I spend my time watching a House Hunters International on the DVR, cook some chicken for E's dinner, wash dishes, and start this blog post.

4:30 Jason comes home and E wakes up from her nap!

4:45 E nurses

5:00 Jason plays with E while I have a little break to do some things around the house and get her dinner ready

5:30 E eats dinner. Tonight its sweet potatoes, apples and pears mixed together and chicken as finger food. Since Jason came home early tonight, he offers to cook dinner!

6:15 E is finally done with dinner and we get in our pajamas and Jason plays with her while I get a nice little break =)

6:55 E is pulling on me and lying her head on my lap so I know it's time to go eat and start the bedtime routine. She nurses and then Jason comes upstairs puts her sleepsack on and reads her a book.

7:25 Jason has put E down to bed and she is not having it. She is upset and screaming and standing up in her crib.

7:30 Jason and I eat dinner and I start watching the Bachelorette. It's my downtime for the day.

8:00 E is still screaming in her crib so I go upstairs and calm her down. I sing to her for a few minutes and then put her back down and she falls asleep in 5 minutes.

The rest of the night is spent watching my show, picking up the house and making a wish list for things for our new house. I pump around 9:30 and then Jason and I head to bed around 10. All in all a good day!

9 months!

Dear E,
You are 9 months old!(last Monday) I can't believe it! This has been such a great month. Your personality keeps shining and I have loved every minute of this month. You keep getting more fun by the day. You make us smile from ear to ear.

You are still crawling everywhere and fast! You can now climb up the stairs (with one of us behind you of course). The first time you did it you were quite proud of yourself. You are cruising everywhere and between surfaces. You will even let go and throw yourself forward to the next surface if it's really far. If I hold your hands, you will walk for a couple of feet but then want to crawl because you like to do it yourself! You will stand without any help for 10 or so seconds and will let go quite often. You have even tried to take a step several times but you fall to the floor each try. I think I may have a walker soon! You are definitely an explorer and don't sit still for very long (unless it's a very interesting toy). I constantly have to keep my eye on you - but I truly love that you have a such a curiosity about everything. Because of your curiosity, we have been having to tell you "no" with unsafe things such as cords or the fireplace guard. You will take your hand away most of the time but then try to go back again.

Your dancing is now full body rocking back and forth and up and down. So so cute! Any type of music and you start your little jig! I've tried getting it on camera several times but you immediately stop when you notice I have my phone near you..hehehe...you're on to me. You love your books and will sit and let me read to you often. You try to help turn the pages. I think you like your dad reading to you better because he will do voices and sound effects and you love it! Favorite toys this month are your dragon ball popping toy, click and play remote, small balls, and your toy monkey. Although you still gravitate towards things that aren't toys too. The diaper wipes, remote, phones, etc.  You think Lucye is still the greatest thing. You laugh at her and try to "pet" her all the time. Last week, you even put your nose up to her nose so that she could lick it. It was the cutest thing and now you do it all the time.You are loving bath time especially now with all the fun toys you have in there with you. You had about 2 weeks where you hated your bath. You would cry and try to stand up and cling to us to get you out. It was the saddest thing but now it's back to normal.

We didn't try a lot of new foods this month. New foods were yogurt (made from coconut milk), raisins (pureed), peaches, and white potatoes. You can now feed yourself puffs! You can sometimes pinch it with your thumb and index finger but if I lay several down on your tray, you would rather scoop them up and try to shove them all in your mouth. Still no teeth yet!! The doctor said you will get some between July-October so we shall see. I love your toothless grin though. You are babbling lots of "mamama" and "bababa" and some "ga" too. You can sign "dog" and "all done" pretty consistently. No actual spoken words yet but we aren't worried. You are clapping A LOT. It is so adorable. You still love songs. You are definitely going through a mommy phase right now and follow me everywhere and get upset if I hand you off to someone (even daddy sometimes). I'm trying to soak it up as much as I can because I know that this phase won't last forever.

Some adorable and fun things you are doing this month:
- while in the pack and play when I have to cook dinner or something, you will take your toys and stand up and hang them over the side and then drop them. Then you look at me and smile.
- you are starting to give kisses. you just bring your face and mouth as close to us as possible when we ask for kisses and then wait for us to kiss you...melts my heart
-you are extra cuddly lately and we love it. After we read you a book before nap or bedtime, on the way up the stairs you lay your head down on our shoulders and don't move it through the rest of the bedtime routine. Sometimes after naps, you will lay on our chests for a few minutes before you decide you are ready to get down and play
- you will find your monkey toy when we ask you where it is. You will look for it and then stare at and smile and most of the time you will pick it up
- you have now figured out to set off your alarm that we put on when you're sleeping to detect movement. You wake up and immediately go to the corner of the crib and stand up. The sensors don't detect you there and it will go off. I come in your room and you are just smiling away!
-Not really adorable but pretty funny are your tantrums. You have a fake scream and you lie on the floor when you don't get your way. Oh my goodness.

Some firsts this month:
- first Mother's Day with me

- first time in the swing at the park


You are still napping 3 times a day. Although you don't alway nap each time, you do stay in your crib for an allotted time. You go to bed between 7-7:30 each night and wake up at 6-6:15 like clockwork. You are nursing every 3 1/4-3 1/2 hours with an extra feeding in the afternoon (so 6 total) and are eating 3 solid meals a day. You weigh 19 pounds and are 28 inches long. You wear 6-9 month and 9 month clothing mostly.

We have loved every minute of this month. Can't wait to see what next month brings. We love you sweet girl!

Love,
Mommy and Daddy

Five on Friday

I'm joining in this fun link up today! Be sure to check it out.

1) I am in love with these shoes! Sheaffer from Pinterest Told Me To has been talking about these wedges for months, and I finally caved and got them for my Mother's Day present. They are the most comfortable wedges I have ever had. Usually after a couple of hours, my feet hurt from wearing wedges. BUT NOT THESE! I wore them to a birthday party and to a wedding all in one day and my feet didn't hurt at all. Do yourself a favor and buy them. Nordstrom is also having a major sale right now!

2) Can 9 month olds throw mini tantrums? Because if they can, E is a champ at them. She has a really good fake scream that she brings out when she doesn't get her way. Followed with lying on the floor and closing her eyes really tight. I've just been ignoring them. Any veteran moms out there that have any other ideas?

3) If you follow me on Instagram (ebethr) then you saw this picture earlier this week. It makes me giggle every time I look at it. It is now a daily occurrence to almost disappear in the toy bag while we dig for toys.

4) We close on our house next week! I am so excited! We bought paint this weekend and Jason, my dad and his two brothers will be painting next weekend. I, of course, have to take care of the baby so I obviously can't help =). I'll post pictures when it's all done.

5) Are any of you watching the Bachelorette? I get sucked into this show every season. Since I know all the spoilers, I can watch it for pure entertainment value. Dr. Larry was kind of creepy, right? None of the guys I really like just yet so hopefully they will grow on me.

Have a great weekend!

39 Weeks Then & Now

When I was pregnant with E, I felt like the pregnancy went on forever. I loved being pregnant, but I was so excited with each week that passed knowing that was one more week closer to meeting our baby girl.

Thirty nine weeks ago, I was thirty nine weeks pregnant and in labor. Thirty nine weeks ago,  we welcomed this precious little miracle into the world. I had waited such a long time to become a mom and it was finally here.

Now thirty nine weeks later, I have a 9 month old baby who has blessed my life in more ways than I could have ever known. She has filled our lives with so much joy. Instead of looking forward to each week that passes, I am now begging time to stop. These past 39 weeks have been the fastest of my life. I know that time will only go faster. I'm not going to lie that tears fill my eyes when I realize 39 weeks of having her here with me have come and gone. I know I will blink and I will be sending her off to kindergarten. And then another blink and prom and graduation will be before my eyes. (I know that sounds so silly but it's the truth!!) This girl is oh so loved!

It's made me realize more and more to cherish each little moment because the years will go by so quickly. Babies don't keep. 

 

Liebster Award

Rebecca over at The Brooks Board nominated this little blog for a Liebster Award! Liebster is the German word for favorite/beloved, and this award is given to blogs with less than 200 followers by other bloggers to say "Hey, I like you. Other people should read you too." Thanks Rebecca!

Everyone should go check out her blog too! She is so sweet, and she has a little girl that is only days apart from E.  It has been fun to watch her experience the same things we are in the same time frame. I love bloggy friends!

Here's how it works:
1) You must post 11 random things about yourself.
2) Answer the questions that the nominate set for you.
3) Create 11 questions for the people you nominate.
4) Choose 11 blogs you love (with less than 200 followers) and link them in your post.
5) No tag backs ( but please leave me a comment on this post with the URL to your Liebster post so I can learn more about you!)


Eleven Random Things About Me:
1) I have different size thumbs. The medical term is brachydactyly. Megan Fox has one too so I think I am in good company.

2) If I could be on any reality TV show, it would be Amazing Race! Jason would do the driving and I would be the navigator. He would do anything with heights and water, and I would eat weird food. We would be the nice ones that everyone likes =).

3) I LOVE to travel! Love it! I want to instill the traveling itch in my children. However, I'm terrified of flying. I squeeze the life out of Jason's hand during flights, and I'm so thankful to be back on the ground when the flight is over.

4) I'm very much into healthy things for me and my family. We try to eat organic where it counts. I haven't had a coke (although the occasional sprite or club soda) in almost 10 years. The more I read about what is in our food the more things I want to extinguish from our diet. About 3 years ago, I changed all make up, lotions, and hair products because of our infertility. Since I started this journey of healthiness, I haven't had to use my asthma inhaler or go to the ER for breathing treatments - that is a big deal if you know me.

5) I am reality TV junkie. I'm almost embarrassed to say how many reality shows I watch and record. Real Housewives, The Bachelor/ette, Dancing with the Stars, The Voice, Duck Dynasty, and all the shows on HGTV are just some that make it on to my DVR.

6) Friends is my all time favorite show, and I quote it frequently in every day situations.

7) I love to read! I have been known to bury myself in a book for an entire weekend and only come out to eat. (That hasn't happened in the last 9 months but I'm not complaining!)

8) I had to go completely dairy and soy free in March due to E having a possible allergy. It's been hard - dairy and soy are in EVERYTHING - but my little girl doesn't have a rash anymore, and I actually feel really good.

9) I love quotes/ scriptures. I have a running list of favorites.

10) I like writing in fun colors with purple being my favorite. Black and blue ink is so boring.

11) I love musicals. You can find me belting out a song quite often.


Nominators Questions Answered:

1) If you were offered the vacation of your dreams, free of charge, where would you go and why?

Oh gosh this is really hard! I would say a trip to the United Kingdom and Ireland. I love all the history in those places, and London is probably my favorite city. I've been to London and want to go back. I've always wanted to visit Scotland and since I have Irish heritage, Ireland would be great too.

2) Are you a cat person or a dog person?

I like both but I would have to say I am more of a dog person. They are just so loyal and are always excited to see you no matter how long you have been gone.

3) Are you in your dream job? If not, what is your ultimate career goal?

Yes. I love staying at home with E. I have wanted to be a mom ever since people started asking me what I wanted to be when I grow up. I'm so thankful that I am able to stay home with her and wouldn't want to be anywhere else.

4) What is the last gift you were given? What is the last gift you gave?

The last gift I was given was my charm for my Pandora bracelet and my fun wedges for Mother's Day. The last gift I gave was a set of towels for a friend of ours for her wedding gift.

5) What's worse..Sunday night or Monday morning?

I hate mornings. So I would definitely say Monday morning.

6) If your house was on fire, assuming all people and pets were safe, what 3 items would you grab?

Probably my computer as it has all of our pictures backed up on it, sentimental jewelry, and my journals.

7) Coffee or tea?

Coffee! I used to go to Starbucks so much in college that they would start making my drink the minute I walked in the door.

8) Do you believe in love at first sight?

I didn't until last August. When they placed E on my chest after she was born, I had the most overwhelming love come over me. It's amazing how much you can love someone you just met.

9) What is the worst movie you've ever seen?

I've seen some pretty bad ones. The Terminal and V for Vendetta come to my mind. Sorry if you liked them, but they just weren't my cup of tea.

10) If you could choose a superpower, what would it be?

I would choose reading people's minds. That way I always know what they are thinking =).

11) What is the best piece of advice you've ever received?

I've received lots of good advice over the years but I have two that come to mind. The tried and true "Treat others how you want to be treated" is something I always try to live by. It can be followed by 2-100 year olds. The other one is Romans 8:31-32 (really that whole chapter is awesome)

If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?

Nominee Questions:

1) If you had a night all to yourself, what would you do?

2) Describe yourself in five words.

3) If you could go back to a different time in your life would you? And if so, what part of your life would you go back to?

4) What's your favorite holiday and why?

5) What is your favorite comfort food?

6) What is your guilty pleasure (favorite indulgence)?

7) What has been your favorite vacation?

8) What are 3 songs that you never get tired of hearing?

9) What's one of your favorite meals that you cook? Share the recipe!

10) What is your favorite quote?

11) What is your favorite accessory to dress up an outfit?

I don't know if I have 11 blogs that have less than 200 followers but the people I've nominated are great! Go check out their blogs too!

Down with the Dearmore's
Our Lovely Life 
Perfectly Us
The Granberrys
The Brandon and Amanda Story
The Brady Bunch
Life's a party of..5!
The McGuire Family
Welcome to the Good Life

Thanks again Rebecca for nominating me!

I may have a problem

*Before I go on, if your name is Jason and you are my husband just ignore this post. Because if you ever say that I am one of these people and that you read it here on the blog I will adamantly deny it. D-E-N-Y it. For everyone else, carry on =) *

Since we are closing on our house in June, Jason and I have slowly started to pack our house so that we aren't doing it all in one weekend. We used to do that all the time but now that we have a little one, we can't dedicate an entire 24 hours to packing our house. Last weekend, we tackled our bedroom. We cleaned out our closets, our bedside drawers, and our bathroom cabinets as we packed up. And I have come to a conclusion - I'm a hoarder.

Seriously, it is crazy some of the things that I have kept. Take for example, my love for magazines. I read a wide variety from People to Natural Health. Apparently if I read something important in them, I want to keep them so I can reference it later. What? I'm nuts. This picture is just a portion of the magazines that I had in bedside table. I had already thrown out about 15 (yes 15) Natural Health magazines.

I tried to fix this problem by tearing out the articles or pages that I wanted to keep and sticking them in a folder. That makes it better, right? Just smile and nod because Jason already gave me an eyebrow raise when I told him this.


Now let's head to my closet. I love bags and purses. LOVE THEM! I find bags all the time that I just need to have even though I have so many at home. It's a sickness I tell you. Just call me the bag lady.

After this picture, I found 3 more bags in my closet. AND I got rid of several last summer to give to a friend for an adoption fundraiser garage sale. Sadly, I was at Target yesterday and found a really cute beach bag that I wanted but don't worry I didn't get it. Yet...=)

Now this one is a little embarrassing. I keep all the cards that are giving to me over the years. Birthday cards, anniversary cards, little notes from friends, etc. It is insane how many I have accumulated. So I went through them and only kept the ones where a sweet note was written in it. If you only signed your name, I didn't keep it. I know its weird that I keep cards but I like looking at them and seeing all the people who have loved me and invested in me over the years. 

I didn't take a picture of the piles of clothes I cleaned out. I think I filled up 3 trash bags. Now I think I deserve to go shopping for new clothes =). 

Whew! That was only in one room of the house. I'm sure I'll find other things that I  *cough cough* hoard *cough cough*. Please still be my friend now that you know this about me. 

My Mother's Day

My mother's day weekend was great although it didn't get started off the way I had planned. On Friday, E  and I were having a slow nice day at the house. But then, I felt her forehead and it was warm...100 degree warm. Poor baby. She was extra cuddly that day and I soaked it up because she is usually so on the go!

Before the fever that day

Sweet baby snuggles...poor thing

Saturday we laid low so E could rest and fight whatever she had. We caught up on some TV shows and we packed a little for our move. 

On Sunday morning, E was feeling much better, but we stayed home from church because she hadn't been fever free for 24 hours and I wasn't going to be THAT mom. Jason went and got me a passion tea lemonade from Starbucks while I fed E. He gave me my cards during breakfast. One from him and one from E. 

E clapping for Mother's Day

My presents will be coming shortly. I'm getting my fun wedges and a charm for my bracelet. So excited. We played and hung out together all day which is the best Mother's Day present I could have. We went on a little walk to the park near our house, and E enjoyed the swing for the first time! I tried to take a couple of pictures with E and these were the best I got..haha. 

Still thinking about this thing that she is in

A little hint of a smile

My first Mother's Day with E was so wonderful. I am so blessed to be this girl's mommy. I remember wondering if I ever would become a mother and that this day for several years brought a lot of heartache and anger. God has blessed me more than I could imagine and I am so so thankful. 

Hope for those with children had a wonderful Mother's Day and for those that may still be aching for that child to hold in your arms my prayers are with you.